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Femdom Porn for the Beginner

You’ve been glued to the screen after typing Femdom Porn. Many jerkoff sessions later you decide that life is passing you by and you should try the adventure for yourself by visiting a live Dominatrix.

Femdom porn isn’t inherently bad, as it turns the gender roles upside down. However it is poisoning the true identity of Femdom. Let me explain: in Femdom reality, the Dominatrix gains strength by using the greatest weakness within the male, horniness and genetically encoded craving to get laid. The more desperate the male is, the more strength the Dominatrix gains by exploiting the urges.
When Femdom is portrayed in porn, even though the roles are reversed, for some reason the male is given satisfaction. A handjob, fucking and sometimes (oh horror) a blowjob.

This begs the question, is it true Femdom if the male gets what he wants?

It becomes more of a Femdom interpretation through the view of pornography. In reality a male slave, can be left without the right to orgasm for a very long time.

As in all pornography, Femdom/BDSM porn is made for male consumption and is based on fantasy. Reality might hit newbies hard. When they come to a professional Dominatrix expecting a happy ending, boy do they get a surprise. Their extreme desire is brought out to the surface and allowed to dangle for the pure enjoyment of the Dominatrix.

If you are an aspiring submissive, you should understand a simple truth: a true Dominatrix will take your power (which is usually between your legs) she will not give it back in the form of your satisfaction.

Sometimes I come across realistic Femdom porn, without any fucking or orgasm scene. This reflects the reality: It’s hard, it’s brutal, it’s intense. At the end you are left wanting more…. welcome to the real world.